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EMDR Certification Requirements
What does it take to become a Certified EMDR Therapist? A clear breakdown of EMDRIA's certification requirements: training, consultation hours, and cost.
3 days ago6 min read


How to Start a Therapy Practice
Starting a therapy practice? A practical, step-by-step guide to launching a private practice — licensing, fees, private pay, and finding your first clients.
3 days ago7 min read


How Does EMDR Work? Eye Movements, Tapping, and How Trauma Gets Unstuck
Wondering how EMDR works? A trauma therapist explains bilateral stimulation (eye movements, tapping), the 8 phases, and what sessions really feel like.
Jun 109 min read


Endometriosis and Mental Health: Caring for the Whole You
Endometriosis affects more than your body. How anxiety, depression and medical trauma connect to chronic pain — and how therapy helps.
Jun 25 min read


Spoon Theory and Chronic Illness: Understanding Your Limited Energy
What is spoon theory? The metaphor that explains living with chronic illness on limited energy — and why "high maintenance" was never the right word.
Jun 25 min read


Finding a Therapist in Greenwich, CT
Looking for a therapist in Greenwich, CT? A local guide to anxiety, couples, and trauma care — virtual across NY, CT & FL, with a therapist nearby.
Jun 26 min read


Your First Therapy Session: How to Prepare and What to Expect
Nervous about your first therapy session? Here's exactly what happens — from the 15-minute consultation to the 50-minute first session — and how to prepare.
May 267 min read


EMDR for Anxiety and Panic Attacks: Reaching What Talk Therapy Can't Always Touch
EMDR for anxiety and panic attacks reaches the trauma-shaped roots talk therapy can't always touch. How it works, when it's the right fit, and what to expect in session.
May 267 min read


Maladaptive Perfectionism and the Procrastination Loop: When the Trait That Built You Starts to Wear You Down
Maladaptive perfectionism is the trait that built your career and is now exhausting you. Recognize the signs, the procrastination loop, and how therapy helps you ease the grip.
May 267 min read


Do I Need Therapy? 10 Honest Signs It's Time to Go
You don't have to be in crisis to deserve therapy. Here are the quiet, body-first signs that it's time — and what to expect when you take the first step.
May 197 min read


How to Overcome Perfectionism: Roots, Signs & Healing
Perfectionism isn't a personality flaw — it's a part of you that learned how to keep you safe. Here's how to recognize it, soften it, and live more freely.
May 198 min read


What Is Attachment Trauma? Signs, Causes & Healing
Attachment trauma shapes how we love, trust, and feel safe as adults. Learn the signs, where it comes from, and the therapies that gently help you heal.
May 199 min read


Childhood Trauma in Adults: Signs, Effects, and How Healing Happens
Most people picture childhood trauma as something obvious — a single, unmistakable event. But for many adults sitting with a therapist for the first time, the realization is quieter than that: this was trauma?
May 58 min read


The Fawn Response: How Trauma Teaches You to Please Instead of Protect Yourself
There's a version of people-pleasing that doesn't feel like fear — it feels like personality. Easy-going. Flexible. Someone who just doesn't like conflict. But underneath that ease, the nervous system is doing something very specific: scanning the room, reading moods, adjusting, shrinking, and making yourself agreeable before anyone even asks.
May 58 min read


Disenfranchised Grief: When Your Loss Isn't Given the Space It Deserves
Some losses come with casseroles, cards, and time off work. Others come with silence — or worse, with "you'll be fine" and the expectation that you move on quickly. Disenfranchised grief is what happens when your loss isn't recognized as significant by the people around you, or by the culture you're in. The grief is just as real. The pain is just as present. But without the rituals, the acknowledgment, or even a word for what you're feeling, it can be profoundly isolating.
May 59 min read


How to Choose a Therapist (When You've Never Done This Before, or When Last Time Didn't Work)
You open Psychology Today. Eight hundred faces in eight hundred small squares. You don't know what most of the letters mean. You're trying to assess strangers from headshots and a paragraph each, and somewhere in the back of your chest is the question that's making the whole thing harder: what if I pick wrong.
Apr 295 min read


PMDD Treatment: What Therapy Can (and Can't) Offer
You're not "too sensitive." You may be living with premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD), a cyclical condition that millions of menstruating people manage in private because the medical world took decades to take it seriously.
Apr 295 min read


Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn: A Body-First Guide
The chest goes tight before a meeting you've prepared for a hundred times. A parent's name lights up the screen and the stomach drops two floors. A partner sighs in the kitchen and, before a word is spoken, something inside you steps quietly into the role of whatever you need me to be.
Apr 295 min read


What Is the Window of Tolerance?
There is a place inside you where life feels workable. Not easy, not always calm — but workable. Your shoulders sit a little lower. Your breath finds its own rhythm. You can read a difficult email without your stomach dropping for the rest of the afternoon. Therapists call this place the window of tolerance.
Apr 225 min read


Trauma Therapy with EMDR and IFS | Start Therapy in the New Year | Shifting Tides Psychotherapy | Accepting New Clients
Trauma Therapy for Healing and Recovery Start therapy in the New Year – Shifting Tides Psychotherapy is accepting new clients A new year often brings reflection. Many people notice that old patterns, unprocessed grief, or unresolved trauma continue to surface despite their best efforts to “move on.” If you are considering starting therapy in the new year, this can be a powerful time to invest in your healing. At Shifting Tides Psychotherapy, we specialize in trauma-informed c
Jan 13 min read
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